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My brother and I can’t find peace of mind since the death of our mother

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY brother and I lost our beloved mum back in June.

She lived with me and it wasn’t Covid-19, so at least we could say our goodbyes.

My brother and I can't find peace of mind since the death of our mother
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My brother and I can't find peace of mind since the death of our motherCredit: Alamy

She was 83 and had a bad heart. I think it was her time to go but we miss her so much and the grief really hurts.

I’m 67 and never married. My brother is 65 and he visited Mum every day.

We can’t find peace of mind since she left.

We would dearly love to know if she is watching over us and if she has any messages that would bring us some comfort.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your grief is still raw and it is natural to long for the comfort of knowing your mum is still thinking and caring for you.

Talk about her with your brother, cry all you want and create a memory album together of best moments and photos.

She’s still here really, as she is in your minds.

My e-leaflet on bereavement outlines sources of help.

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