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KICKED WHERE IT HURTS

Girlfriend dumped me when I planned to propose and then slept with three other men

DEAR DEIDRE: I PLANNED to propose to my girlfriend but then she dumped me.

Now I’ve heard she has slept with three other guys since.

She has broken my heart, did I get a lucky escape?
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She has broken my heart, did I get a lucky escape?Credit: Alamy

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I so love her and thought things were great between us when out of the blue she said she just wanted to be friends.

I was gutted but she wouldn’t explain what had gone wrong and kept saying: “I don’t want to talk about it.”

We are both 22. I talked to a mutual friend, saying how much I was hoping to get back with my ex.

She messaged me the next day saying she thought I should know my ex had slept with three guys since we broke up.

I feel so jealous and upset.

DEIDRE SAYS: The positive about this is you know where you stand – and that you need to make a clean break with your ex.

Trying to stay friends rarely works when one of you is keener than the other. You will only end up hurting more.

My e-leaflet on Mending Your Broken Heart will help you move on.

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