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After sharing passionate kisses with a woman I fell for online, she’s backed off

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER sharing some passionate kisses with a woman I fell for online, she has started to back off.

She says she is wary of a relationship as she has had bad experiences in the past. She is 36 and I am 43.

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After sharing passionate kisses with a woman I fell for online, she's backed offCredit: Alamy

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Meanwhile, out of the blue, a woman I have known for a while has said she has feelings for me and has done for years. She is my age and seems keen.

She has asked me out on a date. I have agreed but said I cannot make any promises.

I have just come through a messy divorce and I am not used to how dating is done these days. I am confused.

DEIDRE SAYS: I wonder if part of the attraction of the first woman is that you sense she’s not ready for commitment, because you are not ready either.

You have just come through a divorce and need time to get used to being back in control of your life.

Take some time to adjust and get to know who you are before rushing into a relationship with either woman.

And a gentle reminder that kissing someone you have effectively only just met is not sensible when the virus is still around.

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