A young man claiming to be my husband’s son is asking for a relationship with him
DEAR DEIDRE: A YOUNG man claiming to be my husband’s son has got in touch asking for a relationship with him.
It turns out that a girlfriend he went out with before he even met me had his child without telling him.
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I’m 35 and my husband’s 38. This lad is 21.
We’ve been together for 15 years and have a ten-year-old son.
I know it happened before my husband met me and he knew nothing about his child.
But I’m not sure I can accept the boy or how to explain this bombshell to our son.
Am I being unfair saying I don’t want to have anything to do with him?
I think that he will replace our son and my husband will push me aside.
DEIDRE SAYS: Assuming you’ve had a strong marriage until now your fears aren’t rational.
Are they perhaps based on having a sibling you were jealous of when young?
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