He has lost his libido and when we have sex, it’s a letdown
DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner isn’t interested in sex and even when we do have it, it isn’t any good.
I am 24 and he is 27. We have been together for five years and sex has become an issue this last year or so.
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He is very supportive and a lovely guy but the spark has gone.
I don’t want to feel I’m begging for sex but I’m a girl with a high sex drive and it is a very important part of a relationship for me.
It would be a shame to walk away but something needs to change.
DEIDRE SAYS: You don’t mention talking this over with him – getting the issues out into the open has to be your starting point.
Tell him you love him but ask what he thinks may have led to his drop in sex drive.
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