I’d love my wife to grab me and drag me to bed for sex but it never happens

DEAR DEIDRE:  I’D love my wife to grab me and drag me to bed for sex but it never happens.

If I didn’t make the first move, would she ever bother?

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When we do have sex, it tends to be just one or two positions. I am more adventurous than her.

I’m 35 and she’s 33. We have been together for six years but she is embarrassed talking about it and frets that I’m not happy in the relationship. Apart from this, I am.

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DEIDRE SAYS: She was probably brought up believing you shouldn’t talk about sex, that men make the first move and it is wrong for a woman to be “forward”. That handicaps couples from developing a long-term fulfilling sex life.

Before you press for things to get racier, you need to be sure she is having a good time sexually. My e-leaflets Too Inhibited? and Orgasm For Women should help open up the discussion – and potential for thrills.

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