My younger, hotter lover is seeing another guy too and it’s making me insecure
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been seeing a guy who is younger and much better looking than me. It seemed perfect at first but I know he’s seeing at least one other guy too and it’s making me feel insecure.
I’m a man of 27 and I have never had guys queuing round the block to date me.
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This guy is just 23 and gorgeous. I don’t understand why he spends time with me and don’t want to ask, as it is not attractive to seem insecure.
I’ve been busy with work so at first seeing him seemed a good chance to build my sexual confidence. I haven’t seen so much of him during lockdown of course, though he has snuck around here a few times.
I know this can’t last, as I crave more than he gives. I want just to enjoy what we’ve got but I can’t.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If what you would really like is an exclusive relationship with him, then tell him so.
If he makes it clear that’s not going to happen, you’ll have to accept what you have now is as good as it’s going to get. If that’s the case, no matter how good the sex, he’s hurting your sense of self-worth so break up with him.
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