My wife has no interest in sex but I didn’t find out until after we married
DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has no interest in sex but we come from religious families so I did not find this out until after we married.
Somehow she gave me a daughter to love but we haven’t had sex since the birth. My wife has made an independent social life for herself and I get no look in.
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We’re in our mid-20s and I still want sex.
When I try to seduce her, she goes along with it for a bit then says she isn’t interested. She never watches porn with me and says sex is not the only thing in life.
I’m thinking of going to another woman – but cheating is against my values.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Sex is very important for many couples but your wife is right in saying it’s not the only thing that matters.
Porn is male-orientated and will not help you understand how to get her interested. Ask her what she feels is missing from your relationship. My e-leaflet How To Light Her Fire can help.
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