For a week before my period starts, I really dislike my new partner
DEAR DEIDRE: FOR a week before my period I feel really negative about my new partner but the rest of the month I am completely happy and in love with him.
I now dread that time of month.
I am 30 and have been with my partner for eight months.
I was on the Pill since I was 18 and decided to have a break and use other precautions.
My libido is sky-high now, which is great, and I get orgasms like never before.
But the downside is feeling negative and disconnected from him.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The Pill irons out the hormonal cycle as well supressing fertility.
You are now experiencing the bonus of a natural cycle and heightened sexual pleasure but also the low of pre-menstrual syndrome.
Explain to your partner and make allowances for mood changes.
My e-leaflet on PMS Problems explains practical suggestions and natural remedies to help you cope.
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