I love wearing women’s bras and I’m obsessed with the idea of having boobs
DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE wearing women’s bras. My partner knows but not that I’m obsessed with the idea of having breasts.
I am a guy of 26 and I have had this longing since I was very young, though I’m happy with who I am and have no wish to be a woman.
I met my girlfriend last year. She’s 28 and things are great.
She even helps me buy the underwear I love.
I feel lucky she is so understanding but this fixation is something else.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It is great you have such a supportive partner.
If she is happy to buy bras for you, I doubt she would be so shocked. But then what?
She might feel differently if you said you were thinking of doing something practical about that longing, such as having surgery.
Best first get your own thinking clear. Do you know where this obsession comes from?
My e-leaflet on Cross-Dressing Worries will help you find support.
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