I can’t stop fantasising about having sex with my dad’s best friend

DEAR DEIDRE: I DREAM about sex with my dad’s best friend.

He is miserable with his wife and I want to be his rock.

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I am 19 and he is 44. I used to babysit his daughter, who’s 12.

I thought he was happily married until it came out because of the lockdown he sleeps at work rather than go home because his wife is so nasty.

I first fell for him two years ago but never told anyone. Dad would be horrified.

I don’t want to be a homewrecker but I fancy him to bits.

I know he likes me too but he’s never done anything inappropriate.

Now it’s out that he and his wife are thinking of separating, I feel like making a move when we can see each other in person again.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your yearnings are romantic while his focus will be on getting divorced and making arrangements for his daughter and property.

Getting entangled is likely to end up being painful for you, as he won’t be able to give you the commitment you deserve.

Try to accept that telling him your feelings is likely to rebound on you.

If you need to offload, The Mix helps under-25s ().

Work on your friendships with your peers, even if it is only online for now. This lockdown will end.

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