I suspected my wife of cheating so I had hot sex with flirty woman in my taxi
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD hot sex with a girl in my taxi. I am married but I keep thinking about it and am tempted to get back in touch with her.
I first met this girl, who is 28, six months ago when she booked me for a lift home from a pub in town.
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I’m 35. I liked her the minute she got into the cab.
She was very chatty, witty and full of beans, and she made me laugh out loud for the first time in ages.
I even took her to a drive-through takeaway on the way to her home.
It was the best shift I could remember in a long while.
I was too shy to ask for her number and kicked myself for ages afterwards, but she called to book me again a few weeks later.
I was nervous and excited about seeing her again. This time I gave her my number and asked her for a date. We have both been hurt in the past and we just hit it off.
My job gave me every excuse to be away from home at all hours and we had some great dates, going for a drink, dancing and chatting.
She would be all over me when I was driving and we ended up having sex on the back seat of my taxi several times. It was the best experience ever.
Then she told me she had started seeing a married man and preferred him to me.
She wanted to end it with me, though she admitted she really liked me and said maybe we could get together in another life.
So now, with lockdown, I am stuck at home with my wife.
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I get the occasional call-out but I’m bored stiff and worried about money.
My wife and I are not on great terms. She’s 33. I know she was messing around with other men online before we had to isolate.
I cannot get the other girl out of my head and I keep looking at her number. I still have strong feelings for her. Should I make contact with her?
DEIDRE SAYS: That girl didn’t take things further with you when she had the chance and made it clear she didn’t see you getting together in this life – and this life is the only one we can make realistic plans for.
Let all thoughts of her go. She’s in the past. You and your wife didn’t expect to be more or less shut in together but use the opportunity to turn this into a positive.
Stay calm and ask your wife why she was chatting or flirting with other men. Did she feel lonely with you out all hours?
Will she agree to make a real effort alongside you to build a stronger relationship? You could come out of this crisis far happier.
How about having sex in the back of your car with your wife – even if it has to be in the garage?
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